"He who runs from God in the morning will hardly find him at the close of the day; nor will he who begins with the world and the vanities thereof, in the first place, be very capable of walking with God all the day after. It is he who finds God in his closet that will carry the savor of him into his house, his shop, and his more open conversation." - John Bunyan
Prayer is simply meeting with God, it is finding Him - it's the "end" in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. James in his final words to his people, he urges them to pray and to seek prayer. Even in this exhortation, James is about keeping the main thing the main thing. Even when people are sick, he still wants his people to know that it's never not about sin and our need for forgiveness. Why - because Jesus is the greatest gift and greater than any gift that we can receive from Him and nothing should hinder the connection we have in Him. We're never to lose sight of the main point of prayer - to meet with God and finding Him, no matter our plight and the plight of those who are dear to us. Everything in our lives is meaningful and we're never to lose heart - He is always up to something...and the point of will always be the Gospel.
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." - Romans 8:28
God will take His people through many trials and tribulations to bestow the greatest gift man can receive - more of Himself! This is the point of the Gospel-centered life. In all our trials, the goal is less self and more of Jesus. So, before we start praying away suffering so quickly, Jesus teaches us how to pray - more Him and more His will. This means that when we come along side people with cancer, incurable disease, failing marriages, faulty finances, etc., we point them to Jesus as the divine healer and provider, and more importantly - the love of our lives. The question we must ask ourselves is this: do we pray the Gospel above all other needs? What we pray for is what we believe is supreme.